Liana Kerzner
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16:30
Asher Wolfstein
Well, I guess that happened. Ah well. I had to go have a bit of a think over it, and I've decided that, it's better it went this way. But, watch, it's going to ding on the KF radar now thanks to Giancarlo.
16:30
She blocked me, and I've blocked her, and that's that.
16:30
16:32
The part that pissed me off so much that I had literally had to go to another room (never happened before) is the fact that she's a therapist and decided to announce that I'm splitting and to tell me to stop.
16:32
16:34
I don't believe she is correct on any of her observations about me. Did I persist even after she 'disengaged' (even though she didn't)? Yes, and I addressed that. Doesn't 'clear' me. I wasn't meaning for it to. Am I abrasive? Yes. She didn't really disengage, and she paints a very narrow shifty picture. I'm deeply offended.
16:36
The most offensive thing is that she's a therapist and in my opinion clearly trying to use my mental health diagnosis to deligitimize me. It leaves a very bad taste in my mouth. I understand if I did the same to her (leave a very bad taste, not deligitimize).
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16:57
Asher Wolfstein
It's already hit.
LK
21:28
Liana Kerzner
Asher, these trolls claim I'm a bad person. So you saying they're right because you had one fight where you both came in hot isn't something I'm going to respond well to. If those trolls are right, they're right about me too. You're entitled to your opinion but I have feelings and that comment hurt
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21:29
Asher Wolfstein
Okay
LK
21:29
Liana Kerzner
I think taking a few days and not making the worst possible assumptions is a good idea here
21:30
Because those trolls quoted Schooley about me. So you saying they're right hit really hard.
21:32
This will be hard to hear, but when you said that? That sure looked like a split to me. It's not delegitimizing when you actually ARE going too far. "Manipulative" is something thrown at BPD people unfairly and you of all people know that. So you're in pot calling the kettle black territory here. That doesn't mean you're wrong. But is this REALLY worth it right now?
21:32
Someone doesn't deserve to get deadnamed because they're an asshole. The trolls were not right about that